Do you have a Banter Buddy?
February 20, 2014
Good ole Banter....there's nothing like it!!!
If you're as lucky as me, you have at least one good friend you can share silly banter with.
You know....the kind of conversation that has you clutching at your stomach as you roll around on the floor laughing. The kind where you can be completely honest and exposed and know that your friend still thinks you're ok even though she's saying "you're completely bonkers" in a jovial manner....causing you even more side splitting laughter. The kind where innuendos fly and wild sarcasm bounces off the walls around you. The kind that has conversation volleying backwards and forwards across the distance between you. It's clever and witty and insidiously playful and you love every minute of it (well I do).
Your brain is switched on and you're reaching into the creative abyss for the next bit of witty sarcasm to send across the table. It's like writing a comic screen play or directing a black comedy. It's fun, creative, honest and soul baring. And it's often these relationships we trust the most - for that very fact - that all is laid bare.
Your brain is switched on and you're reaching into the creative abyss for the next bit of witty sarcasm to send across the table. It's like writing a comic screen play or directing a black comedy. It's fun, creative, honest and soul baring. And it's often these relationships we trust the most - for that very fact - that all is laid bare.
And the best part is that when it's all over, you sit back and sigh with a smile stretching from ear to ear. You've just conversed and connected in the most fun way with someone who truly gets you, teases you, rejoices and delights with you.
But even more importantly, when the chips are down, she can pick you up off the ground with her darting comments and wicked sense of humour. Before you know it, you're laughing again and your imagination opens up to all the wild and fun possibilities lying ahead for you.
It's these people we go to without fear of judgement because when it's needed this person who knows us so well, empathises and supports us during all our crazy ups and downs.
Finding compatibility in the humour department is worth all the gold in Texas, as far as I'm concerned. It can make even the most traumatic situation seem bearable....dare I say, even funny....in a warped way.
So if you haven't found yours, get out and fossick for your Banter Buddy today. It's so worth it!!!
Open up the door to imagination and share something silly with someone you love!!!
I guarantee the smiles will last a long while.
Looking for a way to beat stress?
Try BANTER - here are just a few benefits:
- it sparks your imagination
- has you laughing in hysterics
- allows you to be truly yourself
- lets you get away with outrageous accusations
- and it's just good fun
Dictionary.com defines BANTER as: "an exchange of light, playful, teasing remarks; good-natured raillery."
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Enjoy some today!!
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