In today's busy and competitive world it seems that the art of paying a compliment is fast fading. Yet it costs no money and literally takes seconds to inform someone that we appreciate them.

Paying someone a compliment can ease their nervousness in a new social setting, boost their self esteem, sway their otherwise negative mood to the side of positivity. And not only that - it will make the bestower feel good too.

For the social observer and extrovert, noticing, appreciating and vocalising qualities in others comes quite naturally. For others it might not be as easy but all it takes is for us to look around and see the detail in a situation and really feel the presence of those around us.

Remind yourself that appreciation feels good and that maybe today would be a perfect day to make someone else feel valued. After all, doing so could yield positive results for you both - you may strike up a new friendship or business contact or you might just foster a new appreciation in an existing relationship.

Either way it's worth the gamble for you never know how life changing your kind words could be for another. Read this inspiring article at the link below. It's the story of an engaging man whose simple acts of kindness have shepherded countless suicidal people away from a notorious cliff edge in Sydney.
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2010/06/14/world/main6580981.shtml

This story and others should inspire us to realise we're not the only ones walking around on this lovely planet of ours. There are others, who like us, deserve to be valued and appreciated.

Bestow upon someone the gift of a compliment and notice how much better you feel for your act of kindness. It's a great way to boost confidence all round and enhance our connection with community consciousness.

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